Counselling and
stress management
in Southampton


My approach to therapy
Scroll down to find out more about how I work and follow the links after each summary if you want further information, supporting videos and practical exercises. I'm a Gestalt counsellor and recommend this article for a great intro to this life-affirming, holistic approach. And finally, while grounded in my therapeutic training, regular supervision and ongoing learning, my experiences of navigating life's joyful ups and painful downs also inform what I do and how I do it.

Feeling stuck?
Maybe therapy can help you
unravel some of the tangles in your life.

Guiding principles

Awareness and listening
Being listened to and listening to others is really important but it's also vital we learn how to listen well to ourselves.
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helps us explore many of the different factors that make us who we are. It can be quite a journey.
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Creative play
Using hands-on, active and creative methods during counselling may open up more healing possibilities.
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Balancing and soothing
is no need for unnecessary distress. We can make working with difficult experiences more bearable.
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Other key factors

When therapy helps us get on better with ourselves, this may help improve key relationships in our lives.
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Time spent connecting with our emotions and unpacking the messages they contain is time well spent.
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Recognising that the mind includes brain, body and relationships can give us more therapeutic options.
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Being kind
Treating ourselves with self-compassion may sound straightforward but it's often easier said than done.
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